Friday, March 20, 2009

I'm A Big Girl Look What I Can Do!

As with each of the children, Haley Juliana has been such a wonderful blessing to our family. We cannot believe she is growing up so quickly and is already five and a half months old. She is loving the "sitting" position, enjoys babbling at her siblings, and continues to bring smiles to all those around her.







Thursday, March 19, 2009

Sundays View

When Steven and I made our first visit to Memphis we discovered immediately the one thing that would become our greatest blessing during the three years of our time here. We fully understand that living within five minutes from a temple, let alone having it join the church buildings parking lot, is something few experience. Having said that, the photo below is a view of what I see each Sunday afternoon when I glance out the door of our Sunday School room.

With the many opportunities we are able to experience with this sacred building only minutes from our home, this past Wednesday has been one that continues to stay fresh in my mind. Family history continues to grow increasingly in my heart. I had come to a wall however on my fathers side and wouldn't have known how to proceed if it weren't for some amazing individuals at the family history center. With their help I have had more success in gathering family names and was able to catch something very important that had been overlooked. While everything else had been completed for the first generation out on my fathers side, his sister, and only sibling, had not been sealed. Wednesday evening we were able to complete that important oversight. The spirit in the room was one I cannot explain and has left me with an intense drive to efficiently complete more. I know when we move from here seeing the temple out the Sunday School door and having it five minutes down the street, will most likely become a wonderful memory of our past. I am so very grateful however that families and temple blessings are forever.

Friday, March 13, 2009

Pocket Change

I promised a few friends that my "couponing" posts would continue. I haven't done very well in posting any recent activities regarding coupons over the past month or so. The experience below however is by far post worthy.

Now, ladies with little ones. If this picture doesn't get you crazy about couponing than I don't know what will. You won't believe me when I give the end cost here. I can barely comprehend it myself. Granted, we are talking about items from stores that run at a higher price then your average Costco/Sam's Club deals. Believe me, I am all about "price per" diaper, wipes, and juice box. When deals like this come along however we may as well hop on board and enjoy the ride.

The total on these items came to $110.36. I ended up paying $6.39. No kidding. Toothpaste, shampoo, hairspray and deodorant can usually be bought and stocked in your closets for under $.50, if not free. The unbelievable part of this picture is of course the diapers. Alright. This week Walgreen's had a deal on Huggies Gentle Care diapers. If you bought three jumbo packs at $10 a piece, they would give you $10 back at the register. This $10 does need to be used in their store, but I guarantee, with all their deals you will go very far with $10. The girls here just use their $10 to pay for any couponing items that take place the next week. That way you rarely have to pay for anything out of your pocket. So, now you have spent $20 on three packs. For the past few weeks Huggies has had coupons available on the Internet. $5 off one package of diapers. Each computer can print out two coupons. I print two and have a few of my friends and neighbors print two as well. I hand the cashier 3/$5 off coupons. One coupon per package. He takes $15 dollars off the total and it's now $5. I hand him my Walgreen's coupon coloring book. (These come out every three months and can be bought for $.99. You keep these coupons the entire three months and reuse them on any purchase within that time period.) He scans my $1 off coupon - per package - and I now pay $2 for the three packages of diapers.

Crazy, I know. Listen, the best way to start is by viewing the site I have posted in the right side bar. Each Monday morning she'll have all the new deals for Walgreen's/CVS posted - along with a multitude of other things in regards to saving. Each week is different. Some with few deals, others with huge. If it wasn't for her, and the girls at church, I would have no idea what was going on or even where to begin.

The nice thing about couponing is this. Individuals interested have the ability to be involved dependent upon the time that best fits their limits, whether it's one free shampoo and toothpaste every other week or stockpiling for an army. I'm certain that either way, it's a nice feeling for anyone to walk away with an extra penny in their pocket.

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Wise Words

A few weeks ago our kids had their first experience in living without electricity. The lights suddenly went out, and while it was only for three hours, we learned some valuable lessons through the experience.

Like most families we are continually building and rotating our food storage. With the frequent moves we participate in though, we have found it necessary to "customize" our food storage in such a way that will fit our family best. Food therefore is packaged in boxes that are easy to move and water is stored in five gallon, or smaller, containers. The nice thing about that size is ones ability to throw a few in the back of the car if leaving urgently, not to mention the ease of rotating the water each spring by using it for your flowers or yard.

Out of the things we have thus far stored, I realized something on that day without electricity. The thought came,"what if we had to leave the house immediately? What then?" This thought continued to press on my mind for many days later. I therefore have followed the great example that so many of you have shown us, added with some great advice from incredibly knowledgeable members of our current ward, and fixed the concern that was so pressing on my mind.

For Steven and I the best route was purchasing a 72 hour pack that was already formed. Sorry, but combined my lack of excitement in shopping with a list of items such as whistle, light stick, swiss knife, and ponchos, and you will find me hiding in the closet.
Initially I bought the three oldest kiddos a backpack, then later remembered a wonderful friend who works at the Children's hospital. She always has a surplus of numerous items so I gave it a shot and called her up. Immediately she brought backpacks, including one for Haley J so we could store formula and a blanket. The kids had a blast packing their own personal emergency kits and it was a great opportunity to explain what each item is used for and why we our counseled by the prophet of our church to be prepared. I am so grateful for the wise counsel of our leaders and for that fateful day with three hours of no electricity.




Sunday, March 1, 2009

Missing my quadrennial anniversary

On Feb 29, 2000, Lynette Darden agreed to marry me. There was no hesitation or reluctance in her answer, believe it or not! I don't know what possessed her to do so, but I have been blessed ever since. She has been a more amazing wife and mother than I could have ever imagined. She is patient in raising our children, and even more patient in her handling of me. In her loving arms I have become a little more patient, a little more understanding, and (hopefully) a little more responsible than that day when she put an engagement ring on her finger and decided she would tie her fate to mine for all eternity. The fact that she actually went through with it is equally amazing!

I just wanted everybody to know that I know what you already know- She is awesome. (You should also know she is probably incredibly embarrassed that I am posting this!)

This day only exists every four years- and this year isn't one of them. Despite the fact that it is like waiting for Brigadoon, I still wanted to say; Happy belated, but not really, kind of imaginary, randomly celebrated engagement anniversary Lynette! I would ask you again everyday! Here's hoping you will always want to say yes- even if I still leave clothes strewn on the floor :)

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Pie Tie

It seems from the time I was in high school I have inherited a "sixth sense" when it comes to winning things. In our 8 years of marriage we have won some great things:

Our first was a large amount of free ice cream from Cold Stone after offering a winning name and ice cream concoction. Steven and I did that one together. It was Cheesecake ice cream with raspberries and white chocolate bits blended in. We named it "Berry White".

After that I won a radio contest from my office desk at work. The prize was a steak dinner for two and tickets to see the musical "Show Boat".

Steven won an online contest to see the premiere showing of, "God's Army".

Of course, there was also the trip to New York for our anchor for the day video submitted to the "Today Show".

Looking back, I think my ability to win things all began when I rubbed off my first lottery scratch ticket and instantly won $50. Now, I don't believe in gambling, so you might be asking yourselves why I would be buying lottery tickets? (See post below)

Anyway, last night Kadyn and I both entered a pie contest at our church's annual, "Chili and Pie Bake Off". We both were a bit risky and chose pies that we had never before made or tasted.

Kadyn picked one of Emeril's favorites called, "Mile High Chocolate and Butterscotch Parfait Pie". It took a great deal of preparation but she stuck with it and completed every step all by herself. It had a graham cracker crust with a chocolate ganache layer, butterscotch layer, chocolate mousse layer, topped off with a whipped cream layer. It was pretty incredible and tasted as good as it sounds.

I went with a Southern Living Chocolate Cheesecake Pecan Pie. It was fairly easy but incredibly tasty too.

They took a piece of each pie back to the judges and later lined them each up with a number. Mine was number 3 and Kadyn's number 4. We went and stood by our pies and the girl announcing the winners came over and said, "Lynette, your number 3 and Kadyn's 4"? I said, "yes, is everything alright"? She walked away giggling and I didn't understand until they announced that there was a third place winner, with the second being canceled out due to a tie for first. The tie for first was, you guessed it, pie number 3 and 4. Kadyn was SO happy. She jumped up and down in excitement and then quickly ran away. Everyone began to laugh.

Apparently on the opposite side of the gym a game of dodge ball was being played, with the bishop verses the kids, and Kadyn didn't want to miss out. Surprisingly enough, Kadyn won that as well! You know what I loved best? Initially it was the experience of preparing and baking the pies with Kadyn. Last night however Ryley changed that. You should have seen her. She could not have been more proud and excited for her sister. It was a great night for the whole family.




Lynette and the Lottery

During my junior year of high school my sister Liz and I shared a car. My parents gave us each a credit card for gas and emergencies. One fine day I ran in to pay for gas and the gentlemen at the counter said, "would you like a game card. It's only a dollar and I can add it onto your gas amount?" Wow! Of course I would like a game card! Who wouldn't?

I went back to my car and in excitement scratched off the surface. I had immediately won $50 dollars! Wow, and so it began. For the next six months of my life I bought a "game card" or two with each and every visit I made to pay for gas. That amounted to a large amount of cards and more importantly to note, if your calculating numbers, it amounted to me not only losing the $50 I had won - but paying out about $50 more.

Luckily fate soon stepped in or the madness may have never stopped. My Dad asked for a ride to Jiffy Lube one day to pick up his car. We walk out, get in my car, and the following conversation takes place. Keep in mind of the probable 100 "game cards" I had purchased, I had not thrown away a single one. They all laid scattered around my vehicle.

Dad: (My dear father looking all around my car in complete bewilderment) "Lynette, what are all these"?

Lynette: "What"?

Dad: "These sweetie. All these cards"? (Now holding one up)

Lynette: "Oh Yea!" (With excitement) "Dad, did you know that you can buy these game cards at the gas station and actually win money by doing so"!

Dad: (a small smile appears, but mostly still his look of bewilderment) "I know all about it Lynette. It's called gambling"!

Lynette's mind: (Gambling??? Now that's a term I recognize. I don't believe in gambling though.)

My dear father used this as a learning moment and proceeded to explain to me (his "baby" of five) the many different types of gambling and (seeing the large number of cards scattered about) the reasons why we choose to refrain from doing so.

I am happy to report since that day forward I have been gamble free.