Steven has always had a way of teaching our kids various life lessons in a fun and unique manner. While kind and gentle, when it comes to learning, cleaning, or every day tasks my mind is very "one tracked", very focused. Steven on the other hand can take an every day task and turn it into a fun filled time for everyone.
For example, Ryley is currently learning her multiplications. I would have just sat her on my bed and gone through flash cards until she had it down. Steven brilliantly makes a chart for each kiddo, offers rewards, and plays various games throughout the week to teach ALL of them their multiplications. Why didn't I think of that?

Then there's bedtime. We have our normal family routine of all the nightly essentials, after which I just assume a nightly ritual of the children climbing into their beds and being kissed goodnight by Mom and Dad. This is a frequent occurrence, however, Daddy in all his cleverness remembers to shake things up once in awhile and throws in games like "Tag to Bed". That's when you run around the house free from bedtime until Dad tags you. A short game before bed that's not necessarily essential? Yes. A game that the kids talk and giggle about for days following? Yes! Why didn't I think of that?

Finally there's cleaning. Oh, cleaning. In my mind this task is either easier by myself or.........well, it's just easier by myself. When we have destroyed the house over a weekend and Saturday night I begin to clean up, again, not only does Steven enlist the entire family for reinforcement but he also thinks to put a "spin" on the whole dreary idea of cleaning. He literally "enlists" the kiddos and as drill sergeant and soldiers they all work together as a team to clean up various rooms with time limits and penalties included. The kids eat it up and have such a fun time taking their cleaning seriously, a lot better then if Mom had said, "go clean your room". Once more, why didn't I think of that? I often commend Steven for his cleverness. He say's that's what makes us such a perfect team - my drive and his ability to make it fun. I'd have to agree 100%.




















































